Welcome to Gentle Narratives.

One of the aspects of Gentle Learning which makes us a supportive community is the experiences we all bring to it. When my daughter was first having difficulties, I started a blog to help me make sense of all that was happening. CAMHS workers told me to look up girls and autism. I read the few research papers available at the time and saw my daughter and me reflected in the words of the women who had shared their experiences with the researchers. It hit me like a hurricane - intense, cold, and unrelenting. What does this mean? Does this explain my seen and unseen struggles? Could I be autistic?

On this page, I share some of the blog posts from that time and will add a little context here and there. I hope that it will help those who are in the early stages of their journey of supporting a child with mental illness and those who are on a journey of self-discovery of their own neurodivergence. 

Here, you will also find transcripts of videos we have shared, which contain topical or relevant content, as well as the occasional newsletter-style article and other musings. 

If you would like to share your story to help support and inspire others, feel free to get in touch at office@gentlelearning.co.uk. Thank you.

National Tutor Award
Jane Higgins Jane Higgins

National Tutor Award

I'm very proud to announce that I have been shortlisted in four categories at the upcoming National Tutors Awards from The Tutors Association. These are SEND Tutor of the Year, Primary Tutor of the Year, Home Ed Tutor of the Year, and Professional Tutor of the Year.

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I can feel myself burning out
Jane Higgins Jane Higgins

I can feel myself burning out

I can feel burnout approaching. It’s autumn, and as the days grow colder and the nights longer, my health always declines.

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I hate being interrupted
Jane Higgins Jane Higgins

I hate being interrupted

Is interrupting people now a social norm? For me is nothing less than a build up of frustration.

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Strategies 0.2
Jane Higgins Jane Higgins

Strategies 0.2

Strategies I’ve developed over the years to cope with the autism I didn’t know I had – Part two

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Strategies 0.1
Jane Higgins Jane Higgins

Strategies 0.1

Strategies I’ve developed over the years to cope with the autism I didn’t know I had – Part one – Timetables

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Autism Traits Umasked
Jane Higgins Jane Higgins

Autism Traits Umasked

Masking has recently been in the spotlight within the neurodiversity community (and beyond, I hope), and here are my thoughts on what masking means to me.

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It’s about accessibility
Jane Higgins Jane Higgins

It’s about accessibility

When creating this new website, I found it interesting how text alignment can influence a website's accessibility.

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My tips for distractibility
Jane Higgins Jane Higgins

My tips for distractibility

We all get distracted at times, but as adults we’ve mostly learn’t to construct habits and routines which help reduce certain distractions.

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Selling vs Providing
Jane Higgins Jane Higgins

Selling vs Providing

I am a member of a business development group. We meet each month, and the facilitator asks us challenging questions about being in business, enabling us to grow and thrive. 

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